Pathfinder
Hexagram 06 Conflict
The model of the moment: Strife is unavoidable here. Some of these problems seem to stem from inadequate planning on the part of someone involved; perhaps yourself. Important issues were neglected. It looks like you joined something on impulse, and got tangled up in more than you bargained for. Legal problems could erupt from all this. The course usually recommended for such times: Do what you can to minimize the conflict, child. Stay away from making any large or obvious moves at this time. Don't try to manipulate others, or initiate new projects. Seek a healthy compromise if possible. Sound advice from the proper authorities could be helpful. An impartial arbitrator may be needed to satisfactorily settle things. If this is instead about inner conflicts, it can involve the breaking of old habits or whipping up of sufficient resolution to end stale relationships. In such cases, it can help to make changes in your outer behavior to reinforce your decisions. For example, making new acquaintances can help squelch the urge to call up the same old people again, should it arise. Avoid loitering in the presence of elements which could erode your resolution. Conflicts within the self are also vulnerable to creativity and perseverance. Cultivating new interests in heretofore untried areas can rob old undesirable ones of much of their energy, and so too their influence on your thoughts and actions. In this way you can often shift your attention away from the old and onto the new. The magnitude of conflicts you encounter will vary, as do many other things in life. However, some conflicts ( and some competitions ) may intensify to a point where open animosity and violence are displayed. Where issues appear nonnegotiable, and compromise seems an impossibility. In such instances do 'trade wars' ( or worse ) occur between nations, and divorces between couples. Do not allow yourself to be easily drawn into such extreme exchanges, for eventually one such event may spell the end of us all ( The Chaos Theory in physics spells out the plausibility for even the smallest event resulting in enormous repercussions, worldwide. ). On the much more typical scale of interpersonal relationships, words or deeds born in anger usually do far more harm than good to our interests in the long run. Do whatever you reasonably can to resolve or delay the breakout of such open hostilities, child. It must be realized by all sides that nonnegotiable conflicts are often traumatic for all involved, as events will either tear the present relationship completely asunder, making it cease to exist entirely, or change it in some profound ( and possibly unforeseen ) way. The consequences are truly incalculable. Only after all other alternatives have been exhausted should you allow yourself to consider entering into a struggle 'with no holds barred'. Hopefully, someday, the human race will have outgrown violence of all kinds. But until then, there may periodically come about 'times of severe conflict'. In cases of crisis where prolonged conflict may mean disaster for all, remember to stay alert for movements of the enemy ( whether they be internal or external ). For it is not a question of if they will strike; only of when. Also, do not give away anything to the enemy; this especially includes knowledge of your emotional reactions to their moves against you. Always show them the same face; an expression of indifference to whatever they do. This helps conceal much of whatever harm they may accomplish, as well as any intention of reaction on your part. But in order to work, you must maintain this face in times of both victory and defeat. This means no displays of celebration after gains, and none of mourning or regret after losses. In this manner your enemies will be able to derive no intelligence whatsoever concerning your true thoughts of the ongoing conflict and your own relative status therein.
Fixed (no changing lines);
This is a plateau process or event; the given model will hold true for an extended period of time. Attempts to manipulate events away from the present course could prove frustrating and fruitless, until destiny is satisfied. Consider the following as well as the above: You should realize that others do not share your perspective. This may come as a blow to you, as you have been deluding yourself for quite some time in regard to this subject.
Changing Lines:
1
Letting go of your part of the conflict at the outset will bring you good fortune, but also criticism.
2
You are not in a position to face your opposition. Forfeit the conflict now to prevent damage to you and yours.
3
By holding onto your position and your determination, you will gain good fortune despite the difficulties. But expect no gain if you push too far your claims.
4
The conflict is lopsided and cannot be resolved. It is best to withdraw and allow natural forces to affect the situation.
5
You can expect a conclusion to a dispute to be in your favor, as you have successfully displayed the righteousness of your position to the arbitrator involved.
6
The struggle continues to a painful end. Though you have the appearance of winning, it is a hollow victory.
When all lines are changing;
The help of a third party may be needed to resolve a conflict. Select an impartial arbitrator acceptable to both opposing sides, and agree to abide by their decision ( There is no guarantee here that you will get the result you desire. ).